New reader Amy sent me a story of woe:
Tell me what you think: Date a guy on JDate for 2 months–meet his sister two days before he dumps me by e-mail because he says I’m too similar to his sister. Douchebag? I don’t know what planet I am living on sometimes!
Yep, douchebag. Here’s why:
1. You’d [...]
Archive for October, 2008
Come on, seriously? You need a better excuse.
Posted in Dating, Mindfuckers, Relationships on October 25, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
Elevator Guy update
Posted in Talking to Strangers on October 18, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
The day after I decided to keep a business card handy, who do I run into while getting off the train? Elevator Guy. We chatted as we walked to the office, and when he asked me out for coffee, I whipped out my card.
In retrospect, that might have looked a bit weird, but whatever.
I wish [...]
We need to talk.
Posted in Dating, Mindfuckers, Relationships on October 4, 2008 | 2 Comments »
After how many dates do you need to actually break things off with someone, versus just distancing yourself until they get the idea? Having been on both sides of this issue, I’ll say that it’s never easy. If you realize you’re not interested in someone, you want to get that out in the open while [...]